Someone rather better than me at writing poetry came up with this. I love it! The objectification of women is subject I could go on about all day! Hope you enjoy this:
Lad's magazines: Advice to a daughter
Lad’s magazines are the curse of the nation
Because they promote your objectification.
Some see these comics as sex education
But they are notorious for misinformation.
Maxim has said that girls want it rough
You may disagree, but darling that’s tough.
Zoo wants its readers (those wonderful men)
To look at your breasts and give marks out of ten.
Men say it’s not porn - do they think we are silly?
A man who buys these wants to play with his willy.
Lads may end up with ideas quite perverted
So you'd better make sure your needs are asserted.
Internet porn always gives him a thrill
So tell him at once if it makes you feel ill.
In lapdancing clubs there’s a lot to discover
So make sure the facts are known to his mother.
Getting a boob job, he thinks, is your duty
But you should rejoice in your natural beauty.
Stockings are one of his favourite sights
Too bad for him that you always wear tights
He’s got this idea you should shave down below
But that is the time you should tell him to go.
Your lad has a plan but you know that he’s wrong
And telling him so will make you feel strong.
By "David51" on Mumsnet!
Thursday, 10 March 2011
Wednesday, 23 February 2011
Yes, Rip Van Lilka is still here...
and tired....!
It is officially half term. This is not a particularly good thing. It involves me not getting a second lie in if I need it. It involves the kids losing the structure the school routine gives them. It means I am on supervision duty the whole day! And believe me, LM needs supervision! He is so hyper when he gets excited!
So I have been planning ahead...we are doing this then and that afterwards. It is on the calendar, it's on the picture timetable on the wall (becuase let's face it, when you're a hyperactive 6 year old boy, actually reading words takes too long!)
We spent today mostly at home, bit of supermarket early on, but it was over quick! I'd love to go for some online shopping, but they never get the order right! You buy a mushroom stir fry, they bring round pasta! You order one size of clothing, you get a diferent size. So much easier to get it yourself (at least, it is when the kids aren't with you!)
Planning to go to the cinema on Friday. I have decided to go for Tangled. I did have a think about it beforehand because it does have some strong loss and reunion themes in it. Rapunzel gets kidnapped from her real parents by wicked witch Gothel...who raises Rapunzel to call her 'mother'. So you've got girl stolen from real parents, kept away from them by her fake witch mother (who has her song 'mother knows best')
and then she escapes with Flynn from her tower, and it ends with her happily reunited with her real mum and dad who love and miss her dearly and they live happily ever after... (i think). I did read a couple of adoptee blogs and biological mothers blogs and they thought the loss and reunion emotions were dealt with really well...that they had the feelings spot on.
So you see why I had a think about this one! It'sone of the things you don't think about before adopting...movie themes seems trivial before, but it isn't afterwards! However, I know my kids, and I think they are going to be fine with it. GG loves animated Disney..though she pretends to be too old! So does LM. I think I can handle any questions about it as they come up. It is very different to their own stories...they weren't stolen from the King and Queen amazing parents (though their first mum dearly loves them and is sorting her life out, which is fantastic!). Anyway, we'll see how it goes...
The reason I haven't been around much is mainly being so busy! December through March is such a busy season for Birthdays (all of theirs plus mine), adoption anniversary's, Christmas and Feb half term! Therefore i am officially Rip Van Lilka until further notice (probably May). Since coming up is March birthdays/anniversary's, Easter holidays, then another 4 day weekend courtesy of a Royal Wedding on the Friday and Monday is May Day. I will be exhausted when this is over!! But I will try keep this updated, I promise.
ps. Gem's reunion as far as I can tell is going well, although Jewel's parents still don't know. She feels slightly more relaxed she tells me, and they have met up more. Fingers crossed it keeps going well xx
It is officially half term. This is not a particularly good thing. It involves me not getting a second lie in if I need it. It involves the kids losing the structure the school routine gives them. It means I am on supervision duty the whole day! And believe me, LM needs supervision! He is so hyper when he gets excited!
So I have been planning ahead...we are doing this then and that afterwards. It is on the calendar, it's on the picture timetable on the wall (becuase let's face it, when you're a hyperactive 6 year old boy, actually reading words takes too long!)
We spent today mostly at home, bit of supermarket early on, but it was over quick! I'd love to go for some online shopping, but they never get the order right! You buy a mushroom stir fry, they bring round pasta! You order one size of clothing, you get a diferent size. So much easier to get it yourself (at least, it is when the kids aren't with you!)
Planning to go to the cinema on Friday. I have decided to go for Tangled. I did have a think about it beforehand because it does have some strong loss and reunion themes in it. Rapunzel gets kidnapped from her real parents by wicked witch Gothel...who raises Rapunzel to call her 'mother'. So you've got girl stolen from real parents, kept away from them by her fake witch mother (who has her song 'mother knows best')
and then she escapes with Flynn from her tower, and it ends with her happily reunited with her real mum and dad who love and miss her dearly and they live happily ever after... (i think). I did read a couple of adoptee blogs and biological mothers blogs and they thought the loss and reunion emotions were dealt with really well...that they had the feelings spot on.
So you see why I had a think about this one! It'sone of the things you don't think about before adopting...movie themes seems trivial before, but it isn't afterwards! However, I know my kids, and I think they are going to be fine with it. GG loves animated Disney..though she pretends to be too old! So does LM. I think I can handle any questions about it as they come up. It is very different to their own stories...they weren't stolen from the King and Queen amazing parents (though their first mum dearly loves them and is sorting her life out, which is fantastic!). Anyway, we'll see how it goes...
The reason I haven't been around much is mainly being so busy! December through March is such a busy season for Birthdays (all of theirs plus mine), adoption anniversary's, Christmas and Feb half term! Therefore i am officially Rip Van Lilka until further notice (probably May). Since coming up is March birthdays/anniversary's, Easter holidays, then another 4 day weekend courtesy of a Royal Wedding on the Friday and Monday is May Day. I will be exhausted when this is over!! But I will try keep this updated, I promise.
ps. Gem's reunion as far as I can tell is going well, although Jewel's parents still don't know. She feels slightly more relaxed she tells me, and they have met up more. Fingers crossed it keeps going well xx
Saturday, 15 January 2011
The Happiness and The Pain
Just a brief note to all - Burned Apple Pie does not taste very nice!
Gem did come round yesterday night. She was doing a lot of nervous fidgeting and being a bit controlling, so I suggested we actually do something a bit active to expend some of the nervous energy. We played on the Wii for a while at bowling, and I 'got creamed' by her. Okay, I'm rubbish at bowling anyway, lets be honest here, but that was one ofmy worst defeats ever. It's so bad that I am not going to play that game again for a while, to avoid the memory of it
Gem did talk about her feelings a bit, and we had a long cuddle after our (one sided) match, and scoffed chocolate and sour sweets together. Chocolate and sour sweets do not mix very well, if you were wondering.
She is anxious, elated, and overwhelmed. So anxious for what is to come, for what will happen when Jewel's parents 'find out'. So anxious for what she cannot control, in her world where more control equals more safety. So elated for what she has gained in the last few weeks... the knowledge her sister is alive, happy, that she likes this, hates that..and that her sister thinks of her often. But so sad for what she lost - the losses shown so clearly when her sister talks about her life, that Gem knew nothing of, and the more Gem knows, the more she knows what she has missed out on, through no fault of her own. The Happiness and The Pain go hand in hand. They make for an overwhelming companionship.
It is hard for her to process all this in such a short space of time. But the less she processes, the harder it is for her. The more she tries to process, the more she must confront. Thank goodness she has counselling which I hope will help her through this as much as it has helped her through other issues in her life.
Gem is so strong and so resilient. She amazes me with it, and with her empathy and caring nature. I wish with all my heart that her strength carries her through this, and that The Pain may lessen in time, as she and her sister build up memories together - happy ones
Reunion is a minefield...my thoughts for everyone in reunion or about to be, or searching still. I do not understand, will never understand, what it is like, but I hope everyone who reunifies and reads this has the reunion they would like to have.
Lilka xx
Gem did come round yesterday night. She was doing a lot of nervous fidgeting and being a bit controlling, so I suggested we actually do something a bit active to expend some of the nervous energy. We played on the Wii for a while at bowling, and I 'got creamed' by her. Okay, I'm rubbish at bowling anyway, lets be honest here, but that was one ofmy worst defeats ever. It's so bad that I am not going to play that game again for a while, to avoid the memory of it
Gem did talk about her feelings a bit, and we had a long cuddle after our (one sided) match, and scoffed chocolate and sour sweets together. Chocolate and sour sweets do not mix very well, if you were wondering.
She is anxious, elated, and overwhelmed. So anxious for what is to come, for what will happen when Jewel's parents 'find out'. So anxious for what she cannot control, in her world where more control equals more safety. So elated for what she has gained in the last few weeks... the knowledge her sister is alive, happy, that she likes this, hates that..and that her sister thinks of her often. But so sad for what she lost - the losses shown so clearly when her sister talks about her life, that Gem knew nothing of, and the more Gem knows, the more she knows what she has missed out on, through no fault of her own. The Happiness and The Pain go hand in hand. They make for an overwhelming companionship.
It is hard for her to process all this in such a short space of time. But the less she processes, the harder it is for her. The more she tries to process, the more she must confront. Thank goodness she has counselling which I hope will help her through this as much as it has helped her through other issues in her life.
Gem is so strong and so resilient. She amazes me with it, and with her empathy and caring nature. I wish with all my heart that her strength carries her through this, and that The Pain may lessen in time, as she and her sister build up memories together - happy ones
Reunion is a minefield...my thoughts for everyone in reunion or about to be, or searching still. I do not understand, will never understand, what it is like, but I hope everyone who reunifies and reads this has the reunion they would like to have.
Lilka xx
Friday, 14 January 2011
The lovely month of January...
...not
I know January is always hard for GG, but this particular one is definitely worse than the last! I think this year teenager-hood has actually hit...the combination of a sudden hormone rush, her first real crush (although it is waning a bit now) plus her usual January woes (anniversary of removal from her first mum, so she's anxious) is making living with her a lot harder than usual. And Little Man is of course copying her just because.
An update with Gem - she and Jewel apparently spent ages going through their photo albums and doing as much catching as possible. Jewel only stayed one night with Gem, and then went home late on Gem's birthday night, but Gem tells me they are going to be meeting up again soon, and Jewel will be able to meet Topaz for the first time. I have a lot of photos from Gem's birthday, and I am so happy that Gem will finally have more than two photos of her little sister. Yep that was it - both little baby photos the SW got for us, nothing beyond that. Now she has nearing 100 more from her birthday alone, and Jewel has given her some more photos - at least one from every year of her life, but some years have about 30, others only about 3. So over 300 all together! I think she might be a bit overwhelmed...she want to come round here later tonight. A sure sign she feels a bit wobbly. Her DH works late nights so won't be there
Will update more later... the dinner burning calls...DOH!
I know January is always hard for GG, but this particular one is definitely worse than the last! I think this year teenager-hood has actually hit...the combination of a sudden hormone rush, her first real crush (although it is waning a bit now) plus her usual January woes (anniversary of removal from her first mum, so she's anxious) is making living with her a lot harder than usual. And Little Man is of course copying her just because.
An update with Gem - she and Jewel apparently spent ages going through their photo albums and doing as much catching as possible. Jewel only stayed one night with Gem, and then went home late on Gem's birthday night, but Gem tells me they are going to be meeting up again soon, and Jewel will be able to meet Topaz for the first time. I have a lot of photos from Gem's birthday, and I am so happy that Gem will finally have more than two photos of her little sister. Yep that was it - both little baby photos the SW got for us, nothing beyond that. Now she has nearing 100 more from her birthday alone, and Jewel has given her some more photos - at least one from every year of her life, but some years have about 30, others only about 3. So over 300 all together! I think she might be a bit overwhelmed...she want to come round here later tonight. A sure sign she feels a bit wobbly. Her DH works late nights so won't be there
Will update more later... the dinner burning calls...DOH!
Wednesday, 12 January 2011
Gem's birthday part 2
Well, after the initial shock...
We all got inside, I gave more birthday congratulations to Gem, and then I said hi to Jewel. She is a pretty girl, with a lovely lively smile - just like Gem's! She met GG and LM and both liked her. We got chatting and Jewel asked me questions and I asked her a few questions too.
Her interests are quite similar to Gem's as well, especially excercise which is a biggie for them both. Gem prefers rock climbing, harnesses in trees, swimming, and martial arts - basically, she isn't big on team sports or anything involving a ball! Jewel seems however to like team things - she likes football, hockey, netball, dodgeball - but also running and swimming. She and Gem compared their swimming achievements. She obviously does well in school, lots of friends, confident, opinionated and happy - it was in stark contrast to Gem, who has spent her teenage years struggling with a few qualifications which she passed, and making a few friends, and trying to cope with her PTSD. It made me quite sad sitting there listening to them. What did make me smile was the way they kept stealing glances at each other, whilst trying to look at me and Gem's DH as well! They could barely take their eyes off each other -understandable, they only met yesterday for the first time!
We all had dinner - it tasted good, and it also felt good to be just sitting having quite a peaceful family meal- for once!! GG and LM know to behave when there are guests round though -they don't want to be in my bad books, and they also want Jewel to like them. Also more space between the two of them stopped little feet trying to kick at other little feet, and start an argument!
Jewel was chatty, and Gem was happy to listen unless asked questions - but there were obviously lots she wanted to ask her sister. Jewel wanted to know about Gem's favourite everythings, and about how she and her DH met and their wedding, and would she get to be an Auntie Jewel soon!!!
After tea LM started to get hyper again, so we all went out to the park for a bit - LM ran around like a maniac with GG, I talked with Gem's DH so Jewel and Gem got some private chatting time.
We decided that Gem's DH would stay with me and the littl'uns for a while and Gem and Jewel would go back to Gem's together, so they got more chatting time. I ran home quickly to get a photo album full of Gem pictures that she and Jewel could take to look at together
Then back at home us remaining lot played on the Wii, and relaxed. When Gem phoned, her DH went home, then LM got his bum off to bed. GG and I hugged and chatted. She knows all of her siblings -either she gets letters or meets in person. She will not know the gaping hole Gem has had that is left when you do not know if someone dear is dead or alive, healthy, safe, or ill etc.
I do worry about the situation a bit - both girls are young, Gem is emotionally near Jewels age -i.e. under 18, and this is moving fast, was through facebook etc - I worry because when reunion stories and tips are posted on forums by adult adoptees and first parents, they all advise to take it slowly, and this has not been a slow build up. I worry because Jewel's parents have no idea she is in contact. Whilst I understand why she hasn't told them, due to their obstinate belief that the past can be blotted out, their reaction is not gonna be great when they find out :o
But I am so happy for Gem (and for Jewel) I hope this will be a happy and long lasting reunion for the both of them. I sense a peace in Gem now that she knows about her sister -Jewel is alive, healthy and happy, which is way way beyond a relief. May the peace and happiness last :)
We all got inside, I gave more birthday congratulations to Gem, and then I said hi to Jewel. She is a pretty girl, with a lovely lively smile - just like Gem's! She met GG and LM and both liked her. We got chatting and Jewel asked me questions and I asked her a few questions too.
Her interests are quite similar to Gem's as well, especially excercise which is a biggie for them both. Gem prefers rock climbing, harnesses in trees, swimming, and martial arts - basically, she isn't big on team sports or anything involving a ball! Jewel seems however to like team things - she likes football, hockey, netball, dodgeball - but also running and swimming. She and Gem compared their swimming achievements. She obviously does well in school, lots of friends, confident, opinionated and happy - it was in stark contrast to Gem, who has spent her teenage years struggling with a few qualifications which she passed, and making a few friends, and trying to cope with her PTSD. It made me quite sad sitting there listening to them. What did make me smile was the way they kept stealing glances at each other, whilst trying to look at me and Gem's DH as well! They could barely take their eyes off each other -understandable, they only met yesterday for the first time!
We all had dinner - it tasted good, and it also felt good to be just sitting having quite a peaceful family meal- for once!! GG and LM know to behave when there are guests round though -they don't want to be in my bad books, and they also want Jewel to like them. Also more space between the two of them stopped little feet trying to kick at other little feet, and start an argument!
Jewel was chatty, and Gem was happy to listen unless asked questions - but there were obviously lots she wanted to ask her sister. Jewel wanted to know about Gem's favourite everythings, and about how she and her DH met and their wedding, and would she get to be an Auntie Jewel soon!!!
After tea LM started to get hyper again, so we all went out to the park for a bit - LM ran around like a maniac with GG, I talked with Gem's DH so Jewel and Gem got some private chatting time.
We decided that Gem's DH would stay with me and the littl'uns for a while and Gem and Jewel would go back to Gem's together, so they got more chatting time. I ran home quickly to get a photo album full of Gem pictures that she and Jewel could take to look at together
Then back at home us remaining lot played on the Wii, and relaxed. When Gem phoned, her DH went home, then LM got his bum off to bed. GG and I hugged and chatted. She knows all of her siblings -either she gets letters or meets in person. She will not know the gaping hole Gem has had that is left when you do not know if someone dear is dead or alive, healthy, safe, or ill etc.
I do worry about the situation a bit - both girls are young, Gem is emotionally near Jewels age -i.e. under 18, and this is moving fast, was through facebook etc - I worry because when reunion stories and tips are posted on forums by adult adoptees and first parents, they all advise to take it slowly, and this has not been a slow build up. I worry because Jewel's parents have no idea she is in contact. Whilst I understand why she hasn't told them, due to their obstinate belief that the past can be blotted out, their reaction is not gonna be great when they find out :o
But I am so happy for Gem (and for Jewel) I hope this will be a happy and long lasting reunion for the both of them. I sense a peace in Gem now that she knows about her sister -Jewel is alive, healthy and happy, which is way way beyond a relief. May the peace and happiness last :)
Sunday, 9 January 2011
Happy Birthday Gem!! (and it wasn't the surprise I was expecting)
Well, I woke up late today, and started on a big loaf of bread and a homemade birthday cake - GG helped for a bit, but then went off to the park to play football (and meet Laddie!). She stayed about an hour then phoned and came home. I am so happy that she is finally able to do normal stuff like this! Earlier this year, she also managed her first supermarket trip alone as well! Although, supermarket is much worse than park, since the park is right around the corner, and part of it is in sight of the kitchen window. But still, it's huge progress :)
Gem phoned about an hour before she was due, to ask if there would actually be enough food for an extra person?! Thanks for telling me earlier I thought! I figured she was either bringing her closest friend, or 'Topaz', who is her younger sibling.
But when the car pulled up, out stepped Gem, her DH and a girl I didn't recognise immediately.. then I saw the huge obvious resemblance between her and Gem, and I realised.. BAM! It's 'Jewel'! Not the surprise i was expecting!
This is big..
Gem has a few younger siblings, all of them are adopted. By the time I adopted Gem at 10, three younger siblings had already either been placed for adoption, or had finalized several years previously. So I made contact with all the families. Most were delighted that Gem had a home, and were happy to be in contact.. all except one set of parents, who had adopted Jewel as a baby. She was well a toddler by this time, and they made it clear that there would never be any contact between us, that Jewel didn't need to know her brothers and sisters..she had new ones...and they basically seemed to want to blot out Jewels biological family altogether. Not healthy.. so neither I nor any of the other siblings families heard anything more of Jewel. It has been a source of great pain for Gem, who cares very much about all her siblings and had a gaping hole where Jewel should have been..Jewel could have died for all we knew!
But..suddenly at the beginning of December I found Jewel's profile on facebook..Gem also found it, and her other siblings. Much ado followed, the outcome being that contact was made with Jewel, who has been texting and phoning ever since. Jewel's parents have no idea...
So my shock when I realised it was her standing in front of me...I nearly forgot to wish my own girl a HAPPY 25th BIRTHDAY!!!
more later...
Gem phoned about an hour before she was due, to ask if there would actually be enough food for an extra person?! Thanks for telling me earlier I thought! I figured she was either bringing her closest friend, or 'Topaz', who is her younger sibling.
But when the car pulled up, out stepped Gem, her DH and a girl I didn't recognise immediately.. then I saw the huge obvious resemblance between her and Gem, and I realised.. BAM! It's 'Jewel'! Not the surprise i was expecting!
This is big..
Gem has a few younger siblings, all of them are adopted. By the time I adopted Gem at 10, three younger siblings had already either been placed for adoption, or had finalized several years previously. So I made contact with all the families. Most were delighted that Gem had a home, and were happy to be in contact.. all except one set of parents, who had adopted Jewel as a baby. She was well a toddler by this time, and they made it clear that there would never be any contact between us, that Jewel didn't need to know her brothers and sisters..she had new ones...and they basically seemed to want to blot out Jewels biological family altogether. Not healthy.. so neither I nor any of the other siblings families heard anything more of Jewel. It has been a source of great pain for Gem, who cares very much about all her siblings and had a gaping hole where Jewel should have been..Jewel could have died for all we knew!
But..suddenly at the beginning of December I found Jewel's profile on facebook..Gem also found it, and her other siblings. Much ado followed, the outcome being that contact was made with Jewel, who has been texting and phoning ever since. Jewel's parents have no idea...
So my shock when I realised it was her standing in front of me...I nearly forgot to wish my own girl a HAPPY 25th BIRTHDAY!!!
more later...
Saturday, 8 January 2011
Getting better...
Well, it's gotten better, not worse, thank goodness!
On the 6th she woke up and she wanted to be close to me all day, and needed more reassurance than normal. She also got clingy when we reached school. Luckily her teacher came out to help get her in. In the afternoon I took them both for a bike ride and then did homework, after which we ate a special dinner of Veggie Pizza (GG's favourite) and garlic dough balls, followed by Ben and Jerry's ccookie dough ice cream (my favourite ice cream ever as well as GG's) So both of them went to bed pretty happy and relaxed.
GG had therapy yesterday, which I think went well. She is still talking about Laddie, but at the same time, I think she has gone off him a bit. I wonder if this is more of a ten year old type crush which lasts a week, rather than a teen crush which lasts ages? Especially since emotionally, she is about 9 or 10. Either way, I'm relieved, but of course there will be a next time, as much as I don't want to think about that (understatement of the year!), and all the issues are still there...
On a bright (but also scary!) note, MY GEM IS 25 TOMORROW!! I can't believe it! In August, we will hit 15 years together, and no way does it seem that long!
She phoned me this morning very excited to confirm when her and her DH will be over tomorrow, but she also said there is 'A surprise!' I pushed a bit, but no more information was forthcoming. Is she Pregnant??!! Any other ideas? I kinda hope not, because then if I get pregnant later this month, my grandchild will be older than my final child. Plus I won't be able to be around to support them as much as I would like. But still.. being a Grandma...the idea makes me happy :)
We'll see... by this time tomorrow i'll know....
The kids and I spent today doing fun stuff! I made a timetable of things which helps both of them. After breakfast we had another bike ride and took lots of photos for the albums (we have quite a few big albums full to the brim with photos!). Then LM wanted to go back to his train set, with which he is obsessed, and GG and I decided to make things. She is very very crafty, good at making just about anything. She wants to be a clothes designer when she's older, but today we started on a mosaic instead. I love them, although it is a lot of work.. all the pieces are very small, and going wrong is a bit of a disaster. But we have done quite a bit today. Then we made lunch... Hot baguette and butter, and I had smoked salmon as well.
We have just finished doing more of the mosaic, and GG is watching TV. LM is now doing lego, and I'm relaxing in front of the computer.. ah, bliss!
On the 6th she woke up and she wanted to be close to me all day, and needed more reassurance than normal. She also got clingy when we reached school. Luckily her teacher came out to help get her in. In the afternoon I took them both for a bike ride and then did homework, after which we ate a special dinner of Veggie Pizza (GG's favourite) and garlic dough balls, followed by Ben and Jerry's ccookie dough ice cream (my favourite ice cream ever as well as GG's) So both of them went to bed pretty happy and relaxed.
GG had therapy yesterday, which I think went well. She is still talking about Laddie, but at the same time, I think she has gone off him a bit. I wonder if this is more of a ten year old type crush which lasts a week, rather than a teen crush which lasts ages? Especially since emotionally, she is about 9 or 10. Either way, I'm relieved, but of course there will be a next time, as much as I don't want to think about that (understatement of the year!), and all the issues are still there...
On a bright (but also scary!) note, MY GEM IS 25 TOMORROW!! I can't believe it! In August, we will hit 15 years together, and no way does it seem that long!
She phoned me this morning very excited to confirm when her and her DH will be over tomorrow, but she also said there is 'A surprise!' I pushed a bit, but no more information was forthcoming. Is she Pregnant??!! Any other ideas? I kinda hope not, because then if I get pregnant later this month, my grandchild will be older than my final child. Plus I won't be able to be around to support them as much as I would like. But still.. being a Grandma...the idea makes me happy :)
We'll see... by this time tomorrow i'll know....
The kids and I spent today doing fun stuff! I made a timetable of things which helps both of them. After breakfast we had another bike ride and took lots of photos for the albums (we have quite a few big albums full to the brim with photos!). Then LM wanted to go back to his train set, with which he is obsessed, and GG and I decided to make things. She is very very crafty, good at making just about anything. She wants to be a clothes designer when she's older, but today we started on a mosaic instead. I love them, although it is a lot of work.. all the pieces are very small, and going wrong is a bit of a disaster. But we have done quite a bit today. Then we made lunch... Hot baguette and butter, and I had smoked salmon as well.
We have just finished doing more of the mosaic, and GG is watching TV. LM is now doing lego, and I'm relaxing in front of the computer.. ah, bliss!
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